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Life Support - June Edition
By: Brite Moon
Britemoon.rising@gmail.com
As I write this it’s not quite June, but I can’t help but feel that with the changing of the months will come a change in spirits as well. Everywhere I turn I hear talk of transition, optimism and the opening of closed eyes. I know I have a lot to look forward to in the upcoming months so my spiritual windows are wide open to the fresh ideas that keep buzzing about.
Could it really be possible that change can be floating in the air? Are we inhaling and exhaling the same ideas and acting on them in unison? I can’t say for sure, but there seems to be a lot of people talking about what’s going to be different in their lives and making moves to make it happen very soon. It’s actually quite contagious!
I’m not one to typically jump on the bandwagon when it comes to the latest trends. And I certainly pride myself on being unique, but I think this is one trend definitely worth exploring a little more. Who knows what kind of opportunities might present themselves! I’m game for something new…. especially in love!
Ahh yes, June feels refreshing already… I need a glass of lemonade!
Now, let’s see who’s in need of a little push in the right direction…..
Dear Brite Moon,
I am an aspiring mogul. There are so many things I want to do career wise however I don't know which one to start with first. Also I feel the location I am living in limits my aspirations. For example, I want to have my own clothing line and be involved in the business aspect of the music industry.
What do you think my first step should be?
Signed,
Lost in the Sauce
Dear Lost in the Sauce,
Wow, an aspiring mogul? It’s great that you want to have your hand in different industries, especially fashion and music, which are so closely connected. First things first, NETWORK! Put your energy where it is most useful and build from there.
I really don’t believe that where you live should be a limitation. Being in an area that is not 100% conducive to your agenda only means you have to work a little harder or just smarter. The internet is your number one opportunity to get out and meet people with your same goals. Start your networking there! As a matter of fact, ETM is the perfect resource. We are chocked full of resources from our article content to the writer’s themselves. After all, our motto is “for artists, by artists.” Do yourself a favor and jump head first into ETM. Almost, if not all of the featured artists have Myspace pages and so do the writers and the magazine itself. Ask questions, reach out and touch someone. Make sure to also check out The Bizarre. It’s an entire section dedicated to the latest and greatest in fashion.
All you need to get started is right at your fingertips. Best of Luck!
Dear Brite Moon,
I am stressed out!!!! I work 40 hours a week and I'm currently going to school part-time. Between work, school, family, relationships, & friends I hardly have time to think and find time for myself.
How can I find balance between all of this?
Signed,
Frustrated
Dear Frustrated,
I know it can be difficult when you feel obligated and pulled in so many directions, but none of it will ever be balanced if you continue to wobble on your own two feet.
Like we do with money, try putting yourself on a time budget! You know that 40 hours out of every week is work, and that school has a permanently occupied time slot as well. So if these things are on a schedule, why not try to schedule all of your obligations, including your obligation to yourself.
Although we have 24 hours in a day, I think everyone can agree that it never seems to be enough. Instead of wasting what you have and exhausting yourself in the process why not plan ahead and make the best use of your time. Set up time to spend with family, a separate time designated for friends and most importantly time for you. Stick to your schedule. For example, if you have lunch with friends, stay only as long as you had planned. 9 times out of 10 you will have another appointment to go to anyway so it will give you a reason to graciously leave on time.
Once you are able to get your “time spending” under control loosen up the reigns a little and see how things work themselves out. Ultimately you are in control, so make it work for you and you will find the balance you seek.
Dear Brite Moon,
Is dating a "legally separated" man a wise move for a "never-been married" women who aspires to be married in the near future?
Signed,
Torn By the Separation
Dear Torn by the Separation,
As is true for both situations and people, no two are the same. If you choose to proceed, do so with caution. Be conscious that his current situation will absolutely reflect on your future relationship. Some people know exactly what they want and what does not work for them at all. If you want to be married and he is still trying to get out of one, the two of you may not see eye to eye about what the future may hold. If you are willing to take your time and feel him out then go for it. Just know that there will likely be obstacles (BIG ONES) that you may have to overcome, and on your own. See the situation for what it is and make decisions that will work positively in your favor.
Never say never, and in love nothing is ever predictable. Trust your instincts and go with the flow. If you keep the situation breezy and it isn’t flowing in the direction you had hoped, get out early. Don’t stay attached to a pointless situation long enough to cause emotional damage. Mr. Forever may be looking for you while you’re playing hide-n-seek with Mr. Right Now!
I’m sure the summer heat will bring about some sticky situations so get those questions in!
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