Lousy Lovers
This is for the guy that looks at countless rap music videos wishing
that he could have all those girls to himself, or at least one. Lol!
This is for the nerd that envies the star basketball player that stuffs
him in his locker everyday, after stealing his lunch money. Whether
you’re ugly, fat, too skinny, or broke you can relate and you usually
end up becoming apart of lousy lovers. Even very attractive people can
be hopeless in the love department. When you never can get a date, your
sitting at home watching season 1 of Dawson ’s Creek on DVD on a
Saturday night, this is for you. This is for you if you called out sick
at work just to be on Myspace for another 8 hours of your life.
We’ve created so many escapes for desperate people who are anti-social, chat lines, dating websites, and Myspace. What ever happened to actually meeting the person, in person and then getting to know them? Now we’re considering people that we meet on a software program our friends? Constantly exchanging personal information such as photos, locations, birthdates, and sexual orientation. It’s so much infidelity because a lot of people don’t have a strong connection in the first place, because their first encounter with one another was artificial. With today’s society there's so much focus on image that people forget what’s really important, personality. Have you ever seen an ugly guy walking down the street with a beautiful girl, Lol, my point exactly. He has recognized what most of us are too blind to see, looks only get you but so far.
What a lot of men are lacking is confidence, a lot of us are insecure about something. Whether it’s size, going bald, grey hair, it’s always that one thing that helps lower our self-esteem. You are what you think you are, so if you think that you look good then everybody else will. You have to get out more including clubs, the mall, and bars. I guess speed dating isn’t so bad, but how much do you really know about a person in 5 minutes lol. Rule number one is respect, the way you carry yourself reflects how people will treat you. Hold your shoulders up so they’ll appear as if they’re broad. Hold your head in an upright position and poke your chest out, don’t try to hard.
Be social even if you’re not
interested in a girl, treat her like she’s the most beautiful girl
you’ve seen. The ugliest girls have the sexiest friends lol. Other
females will see how you interact with that girl and envy her, females
have jealously in their blood. Study your target, if you aim to have a
love life study females. They have tons of books and shows. I hate ‘’Sex
and the City’’ but I have watched it before, for educational purposes.
For those of us who don’t have rhythm take a hip hop dance class. Women
relate how well you can move when you dance to how good you are in bed.
Go shopping, women love a man with a good sense of style, just look at
GQ magazine or something. If we can study math, science, and English, we
can study sex. Read…get yourself a book on Karma Sutra or ‘’Sex for
Dummies’’. Don’t envy them, let them envy you.
Envy
envy@excapethematrix.com